Updated New Relation Copy for 2023: Set All Relations Free

2023 another year to Set All Relations Free, is fast approaching!

Kwe’ nitap!

There’s much to talk about, and so much that has already gone on!

So while we get read to say Nmutlis to Fall, and transfer updated articles such as “MMIWGC2STPE: Anna Mae Pictou, Pocahontas, and What You Can Do Now.”, “IndigiQueertrastrophe”, “How To Help My Friend”, pages of resources and funraisers, and so much more from the LRS archives from the old agentskyhouse.com site, we thought the update for New Relations that email or call us was ready to go up.

We always suggest to folks we work with to always have copy ready for folks, when you can, of things you have to repeat on the regular. It minimizes stress, and it really helps one’s health in the long run.

It’s also great to look back on, and revise on the regular!

“Kwe' nitap!
Wela'lin for the wait during our Indigenous People's Heritage Month healing break. As we are recovering from the news of Club Q on Trans Awareness Day on top another year of settler relations refusing to Honor the Treaties and Return the Land to it's Indigenous people, we are still predominantly off the net and hard at work empowering All Relations to be Free 🙏🏼🌈

Be aware that we may be heading abroad again due to Elder Dr Daniel N Paul's change in health, to increase support to our L'nu (Mi'kmaq) First Nation families, and All Our Relations.

We’re currently combining numerous sites back to Le Rouge Sublet, so while the Le Rouge Sublet study/project "Mantra Pet" addresses do still function, it will be removed in 2024.

As Freeing All Relations from oppression and empowering human Caregivers to best meet their nonhuman's needs, we will still be helping all relations, no matter what the website address is.

If the site gives you any issues while we’re recompiling, or you need further direction, ke let me know.

We do our best for fees to fit a relations' financial capabilities, while balancing eradicating capitalist oppression and eliminating homelessness and resource poverty (of All Relations, including our own, as we are still not in a safe or empowered zone).

The application addresses this by having payment scale set to income.

Standard plan Examples:

Any Relation making around 50k per year = $120/hr, $2/min, typically of 15 mins research time, 15 mins communication, 30 minutes digital session (video, audio, etc).

Those making more pay more, those making less pay less, those making nothing can request pro-bono.

Additionally, any Relations that are willingly empowering oppression of their Relations, with the inclusion of bigoted language or ownership of bigoted artifacts, pay more.

All Relations looking to surrender bigoted artifacts to Oppression Awareness Education centers and/or changing oppression enabling behavior should state so in the notes.

Feel free to put the any info from the [v/e]mail you sent in the notes, to save yourself time, and add any other information you see fit.

More can always be added to your file at a later time, and info from previous work will be sent through Telegram.

Wela'lin again for any and all patience as our family continues to find ourselves a safe home, and continue to empower all relations to be free in Black Indigenous Person of Color Liberation and Joy, and put 20+ years of good work [and numerous interfaces] in back one space.

Because much of the information we’ll be sending back and forth is confidential, we will be using Telegram [ download at https://telegram.org/dl ], which we have been for 10+ years, which allows us to send files, video, audio, text, and anything else needed for sessions.

While sessions are all still digital to minimize risk to Elders and other compromised folks during this time, we are still often working in areas with little to no internet. While telegram helps to minimize gaps in communication, we will be doing our best to keep everyone posted on when we will be off the net, when possible.

Once your application is in and we see you exist on Telegram, we'll contact you during our next messaging availability (Thurs, Sat, Sun) on Telegram. Responses to messages can take all the time needed, and we request folks never rush.

In addition to Telegram, you will need a composition notebook, or any notebook that does not cause block/sketch anxiety. You’ll be using it to understand how to best track and proactively respond to your Relation's needs and stresses with ease.

I am currently booked today, and maintain a "no response within 24 hours" rule when possible to have time to process responses to maximize efficiency and minimize excess.

We and our family hope you and your's are both safe, warm, and empowered, and sharing that fully with All Our Relations.”

Do you have any questions? Feel free to contact us at our new email lerougesublet at pm.me, and keep an eye out for the return of the “Ask a question” form, which will joining the “Story Sharing” form as we take the next steps into the collaborative archive projects linking folks through Empowerment of listening!

Nmultis! Tyber Phillip A* Martin-Mitchell-Moniak-Murphy and all of Le Rouge Sublet

Giving: Mourning Day, Club Q Disaster, and 2SNBT*Q Fundraisers

This post is a WIP, and will be filled with more ways to give as links also spread themselves throughout the LRS website.
For the 18+ Relations interested in the “Giving is Receiving” intensives agentSKYHOUSE has set up to increase giving to Marginalized groups, please head to agentSKYHOUSE’s linktr.ee and scroll down to their “Manyvids” link.

We hope you are spending the upcoming holidays giving to end white supremacy and other forms of oppression and bigotry, and receiving joy for doing so.

Honoring Indigenous People

Fact: Melanin rich aka “Black” Indigenous folks have been in “America” for 10,000+ years, and racially codified by whites as “Black” since colonization

Wela’lin to every Ancestor, living and Walked On, that led me to be here making these choices today.
I hope my actions honor you all, with special Wela’lin given to Annie Mae Pictou.

Annie Mae Pictou is one of the countless lives lost to the lies and their cost that allows white supremacy to continue. Above and below you can hear the voices of Indigenous People speaking about their realities this Mourning Day. If you’re a Relation in need of information to help you know the history of “Thanksgiving Day”, look at what Elder Dr Daniel N Paul has to say. When you’re ready, join your Relations on National Day of Mourning.

Warrior Kids Podcast with Mi’kmaw Teacher Pam Palmater

Warrior Life Podcast with Mi’kmaw Teacher Pam Palmater

Cultivating Safe Spaces with Jen Green

Two Spirit Tea with

Simma Down & Ella L’Amoureux

Go smudge yourself with Jen Green

Le Rouge Sublet celebrates and honors Indigenous Peoples Day (10/10) and Indigenous ("Native american") Heritage Month (11, Keptekewiku's aka "November") by fully investing our time in prayer, dance, art, visibility actions, and other forms of healing.

On both 10/10 and during the month of Keptekewiku's [November], Le Rouge Sublet, Tyber Phillip Alasenmat Martin-Mitchell-Moniak-Murphy aka agentSKYHOUSE, and affiliates will be socially unavailable in any business for(u)m online.

Through out the month beyond, we will continue to discuss and educate on matters such as Land Back, the historical and continued erasure of Black Indigenous people of the Western Hemisphere (aka paper genocide and blood quantum), my own urban nonstatus Mi’kmaq perspective, and much more.

Sessions will renew in Kesikewiku's, December, except during Winter Solstice and surrounding holidays.

Stay tuned for more.
Nmultis

“But why do Indigenous people and their allies honor Mourning Day and call foul on Thanksgiving?”

“… and what can I do to Honor Indigenous People too?”

  • Find out who’s land you’re living on and learn about them! A great starter site is NativeLand.ca, with both a website and an app

  • Look up the Indigenous Nations you’ve found listed and see how you can help! Every Nation is different, some big with many Bands, Clans, and other Family focused formations, some small (due to oppression’s effect on them).

    • Example: I live in stolen Monacan Nation territorty, which Native Land tells me when I type in “Lynchburg, Va, USA” in the search bar.

    • I then go onto my browser and type “Monacan Nation official website”, and get immediate results! Some browsers have coding intended to minimize how much Indigenous keywords, and therefore media and wesbites, are shown to a searcher. If you find it’s not official Indigenous Nation sites coming up first, then try another browser (and/or be prepared to search through a few pages).

    • From there I can see that they have a Food Bank (and those can always use support), and a facebook page that will lead me to more social updates and needs.

      • Tip: If there’s buttons to donate or gift resources, make use of them! Gifting big or small makes a difference.

      • Tip: Contacting an Indigenous Nation that may not say how their Food Bank drop off/donations work, or have no information on how to donate/help, or to simple ask HOW to help, is easy!

        • Example: “Kwe’! I would like to donate to the Food Bank, as well as know other ways that I can help y’all and your Nation. Wela’lin!”

          • (Feel free to replace “Kwe’” with how you say “Hello” and Welalin” with how you say “Thank you”)

“That was really easy! I feel like there’s more to this though?”

Because BIPOC are the most hunted, moved, censored, incarcerated, policed, harmed, and trafficked people in the Western Hemisphere (especially Two Spirit, as well as Intersexed, Trans*, Nonbinary, Queer, and other gender and/or sexually diverse folks), there are always more ways to help, and through out Indigenous People’s Heritage (aka Native American Hsitory) Month, we’ll be adding more!

Thankfully the more people that allow easy habits of honesty and compassion backed with solidarity and action, the less clean up we all have to tend to.
So we can all:

  • Keep an eye out for nonstatus and displaced Indigenous people (like myself) who are outside of their Sovereign Nation’s territory, and are therefore more at risk and lacking in enough resources, community, and solidarity.

    • Ask how we may need help, accept the answers you receive with patience. Our needs may be foreign or very different from what you’re socialized to see as normal or healthy.

    • If something seems wrong, ask if they want you to contact local Indigenous folks (“I don’t know any others!” means go back to step one to find local support)

      • some Indigenous people and Nations have harmful behavior and responces towards Two Spirit, and other gender and/or sexually diverse folks. If you contact a local 2SIT*NBQLGBA+ group be aware many LGBTQIA groups are not experienced in helping Indigenous people, so be patient and supportive within your boundaries

  • Listen to and share posts from Indigenous people and Nations websites, social media, music, art, and more!

  • Return The Land

It may sound scary and it may sound difficult, but it’s actually not that hard at all! Get started on the steps above, and come back soon for tips on how to actively Return The Land to Indigenous People (in all hemispheres). In the meantime, check out these articles: